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ATDel
ATDel Forum Participant Posts: 335
edited April 2016 in How to use Club Together #1

I visit 3 other caravan forums, read alot and post infrequent where I think I can add value. I have been a member of this forum from nealy the start but in the past 6/12 month it has become quite a nasty forum at times

I must say the sniping on this forum between posters is probably the worst I have come across, and in the real world would be classed as bullying in some instances.

I dont know how the site is moderated but it does seam that people can get away with alot of atacking and post drift because of these personal atacks and sniping. It also will put alot of people from posting for fear of getting the same treatment off the
same people.

Kev

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  • rjb
    rjb Forum Participant Posts: 118
    edited April 2016 #2

    I totally agree I read but very rarely post 

  • Bob2112
    Bob2112 Forum Participant Posts: 276
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    edited April 2016 #3

    There are only a couple of dozen regular posters.. Just leave them to it.

  • JayEss
    JayEss Forum Participant Posts: 1,663
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    edited April 2016 #4

    I agree with you OP. I had a break from CT for quite a while but got involved with the Broadway issue and seem to be back again.

    It's not a friendly place at times  

  • Kennine
    Kennine Forum Participant Posts: 3,472
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    edited April 2016 #5

    I visit 3 other caravan forums, read alot and post infrequent where I think I can add value. I have been a member of this forum from nealy the start but in the past 6/12 month it has become quite a nasty forum at times

    I must say the sniping on this forum between posters is probably the worst I have come across, and in the real world would be classed as bullying in some instances.

    I dont know how the site is moderated but it does seam that people can get away with alot of atacking and post drift because of these personal atacks and sniping. It also will put alot of people from posting for fear of getting the same treatment off the same people.

    Kev

    Write your comments here...Good post Kevin. You are correct. This forum is infamous for threads being hijacked. I also agree that the little gang known as the "usual suspects" have a posting style of personal insults when  any poster does not agree with them. ----Best just to ignore them.

    The mods do their best. But as volunteers have not the time to read every thread.

    K

     

  • SteveL
    SteveL Club Member Posts: 12,301 ✭✭✭
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    edited April 2016 #6

    I find these sort of comments rather strange. Just like the complaints about Twitter and Facebook, or bad TV programmes. All these sites / devices have an off button.

  • huskydog
    huskydog Club Member Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    edited April 2016 #7

    The trouble is some take it to seriously , even friends fall out at times , and CT is no different......................

  • EJB986
    EJB986 Forum Participant Posts: 1,153
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    edited April 2016 #8

    All forums fluctuate, sometimes good, sometimes bad, so if one deteriorates go to another!

    The cycle time seems to be about 3 to 5 years!

    At least this one is free even though 90% ot the pages are filled by 4 or 5 regulars!

  • DavidKlyne
    DavidKlyne Club Member Posts: 13,857 ✭✭✭
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    edited April 2016 #9

    Kev

    The moderators work within the Guidelines and T&C's set out by the Community Manager. We do intervene if things get out of hand and threads are sometimes closed or posts Deleted User as a result of that intervention but there has got to be a balance in there somewhere. I suspect if you are an infrequent visitor then you might miss lots of things that happen which might illustrate the action that has been taken. As a member of the forum you do have the option to use the Report button if you feel something has not been dealt with correctly. 

    David

  • brue
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    edited April 2016 #10

    I think the forum is drifting in places and there is some pointless bickering in threads like Sunday Departures which isn't very inviting to read.

    As has been said there is an "off" button both on here and in your own ability to click off and not respond...which I do.Undecided

  • Oneputt
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    edited April 2016 #11

    It's called the rich tapestry of life, wouldn't it be boring if we were all the sameLaughing

  • milliehull
    milliehull Forum Participant Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭
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    edited April 2016 #12

    I only read and contribute the the threads that I am interested in and like and I don't bother with the others.  As well as the argumentative few here are also some very nice, friendly people on here.  I just ignore the others.

  • InaD
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    edited April 2016 #13

    I only read and contribute the the threads that I am interested in and like and I don't bother with the others.  As well as the argumentative few here are also some very nice, friendly people on here.  I just ignore the others.

    +1.  Perhaps that's why I haven't got to the 4 or 5 purple stars, and won't get there during my lifetime
    Winking

  • HelenandTrevor
    HelenandTrevor Forum Participant Posts: 3,221
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    edited April 2016 #14

    I only read and contribute the the threads that I am interested in and like and I don't bother with the others.  As well as the argumentative few here are also some very nice, friendly people on here.  I just ignore the others.

    +1.  Perhaps that's why I haven't got to the 4 or 5 purple stars, and won't get there during my lifetime
    Winking

    +2 Same here, 

  • ATDel
    ATDel Forum Participant Posts: 335
    edited April 2016 #15

    I find these sort of comments rather strange. Just like the complaints about Twitter and Facebook, or bad TV programmes. All these sites / devices have an off button.

    It wasnt so much a complaint but a comment based on my experience of the site, i find it sad when threads get lost in bickering, why should I switch off, if I see a thread im interested in ill start to read then all of a sudden off it goes kicking off, thats
    when I go off to something else but it looses the thread which may have been very informative.

    I dont do face book or twitter, never have never will

     

  • brue
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    edited April 2016 #16

    Ultimately none of us are responsible for the forum (although what we contribute can affect the general appearance and enjoyment of it) so the "off" button is the only way out sometimes. I really hope the new web site will bring improvements all round.

  • Bob2112
    Bob2112 Forum Participant Posts: 276
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    edited April 2016 #17

    Don't use the off button ,that is a result for the the clique. Milly has the answer just skip the posts of the "You know who"

    There are only a few of them and they are easy to recognise .

    They won't stop but if they are just repeating the same old stuff between themselves they may eventually get frustrated.

    Make up your own avatar for your particular favorites.They won't be flattering but it makes them more fun to recognise

     

    One lady who has irritated me would certainly sue if she saw her new avatar.  

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  • Tinwheeler
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    edited April 2016 #19

    Don't use the off button ,that is a result for the the clique. Milly has the answer just skip the posts of the "You know who"

    There are only a few of them and they are easy to recognise .

    They won't stop but if they are just repeating the same old stuff between themselves they may eventually get frustrated.

    Make up your own avatar for your particular favorites.They won't be flattering but it makes them more fun to recognise

     

    One lady who has irritated me would certainly sue if she saw her new avatar.  

    What on earth has some unfortunate female done that's irritated you, Bob? Do tell!  Cool

    I'm not sure I can see the point of assigning avatar pics for your own amusement but, if it keeps you happy, why not?Happy

     

  • nelliethehooker
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    edited April 2016 #20

    What on earth has some unfortunate female done that's irritated you, Bob? Do tell!  Cool

    I'm not sure I can see the point of assigning avatar pics for your own amusement but, if it keeps you happy, why not?Happy

     

    Write your comments here...

    Don't use the off button ,that is a result for the the clique. Milly has the answer just skip the posts of the "You know who"

    There are only a few of them and they are easy to recognise .

    They won't stop but if they are just repeating the same old stuff between themselves they may eventually get frustrated.

    Make up your own avatar for your particular favorites.They won't be flattering but it makes them more fun to recognise

     

    One lady who has irritated me would certainly sue if she saw her new avatar.  

    I didn't know one could do that. Just wonder what's the point.

  • bestboy
    bestboy Forum Participant Posts: 302
    edited April 2016 #21

    Sorry but i think some people just post to cause upsets!

  • BrianandElaine
    BrianandElaine Forum Participant Posts: 31
    edited April 2016 #22

    I read through posts and if I am interested or have something to contribute I will - if I am not interested I move on.   There are many topics I like reading the banter between people but would be fearful of commenting as can be daunting.   We are our own
    person if you dont like what you read move on and leave them to it.   I am sure it is all good banter and said tongue in cheek.  However I do believe some people start a topic and comment just to cause trouble.    

  • peedee
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    edited April 2016 #23

    I always think some members need to get out more which then might improve their contributions 

    Peedee 

  • huskydog
    huskydog Club Member Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    edited April 2016 #24

    every member is entitled to post an opinion ,we may not like it ,but that's the way it is ..........

  • JVB66
    JVB66 Forum Participant Posts: 22,892
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    edited April 2016 #25

    By reaction of some to posts,it does make one wonder whether they have actually ever used their leisure vehicle in the real world, but then this is not the real world its like all Forums  alot of good info and lot of joshing with the un initiated its normally light heartedSmile

  • Kennine
    Kennine Forum Participant Posts: 3,472
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    edited April 2016 #26

    It so easy to ignore the dark side of forums, on this one it is the personal insults against an individual which appears to be the only reason that the little gang of the" Usual Suspects" post.

    But there are good people on here who enjoy posting their opinions and expect others might not support those opinions but accept that we are all different and respect everybodys right to post honest opinions.

    K Smile

    So my advice is , just ignore the "Usual Suspects" gang and enjoy the forum.  ----- I do.

    K Wink

  • Rocky 2 buckets
    Rocky 2 buckets Forum Participant Posts: 7,101
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    edited April 2016 #27

    It so easy to ignore the dark side of forums, on this one it is the personal insults which appears to be the only reason that the little gang of the" Usual Suspects" post.

    But there are good people on here who enjoy posting their opinions and expect others might not support those opinions but accept that we are all different and respect everybodys right to post honest opinions.

    K Smile

    So my advice is , just ignore the "Usual Suspects" gang and enjoy the forum.  ----- I do.

    K Wink

    K, you are the undisputed King of irony. I love itLaughingCool

  • huskydog
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    edited April 2016 #28

    but here we go again about the "usual suspects" ,I've never come across them ,only members with an opinion which I don't have a problem with ......

  • JVB66
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    edited April 2016 #29

    It so easy to ignore the dark side of forums, on this one it is the personal insults which appears to be the only reason that the little gang of the" Usual Suspects" post.

    But there are good people on here who enjoy posting their opinions and expect others might not support those opinions but accept that we are all different and respect everybodys right to post honest opinions.

    K Smile

    So my advice is , just ignore the "Usual Suspects" gang and enjoy the forum.  ----- I do.

    K Wink

    K, you are the undisputed King of irony. I love itLaughingCool

    Wink...+1

  • Oneputt
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    edited April 2016 #30

    the little gang of the" Usual Suspects" post

    K,  I probably think of the, as you put it,  'the usual suspects' as a totally different group of people than you do, so you may have to be more explicit

  • Kennine
    Kennine Forum Participant Posts: 3,472
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    edited April 2016 #31

    the little gang of the" Usual Suspects" post

    K,  I probably think of the, as you put it,  'the usual suspects' as a totally different group of people than you do, so you may have to be more explicit

    Write your comments here...Of course Oneput, happy to oblige.  :- I refer you to my previous post

    Quote :-

    "It so easy to ignore the dark side of forums, on this one it is the personal insults against an individual which appears to be the only reason that the little gang of the" Usual Suspects" post.