Xmas present dilemma

huskydog
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edited December 2015 in General Chat #1

I need to buy the wife something for Christmas ,do I,

1, get her a set a saucepans that we can both benefit from

2, some jewellery ,that only she will benefit from , or

3 , some new tools for the shed that she will throw back at me , but at least I would not have wasted my money, and I can benefit fromUndecidedSurprisedFrown

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  • Oneputt
    Oneputt Club Member Posts: 9,144 ✭✭✭
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    edited December 2015 #2

    How about asking her what she prefers Wink

  • Rocky 2 buckets
    Rocky 2 buckets Forum Participant Posts: 7,101
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    edited December 2015 #3

    Get Her exactly what will make Her happy for Christmas, that way everyone's life is better. Remember-Wives are not just for Christmas-hope this helpsHappy

  • XTB 907
    XTB 907 Forum Participant Posts: 47
    edited December 2015 #4

    Ask the dog

  • Metheven
    Metheven Club Member Posts: 3,987 ✭✭✭
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    edited December 2015 #5

    Let her choose her own, give her a voucher to spend in your shop.

    Win win.

  • JillwithaJay
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    edited December 2015 #6

    If you called me 'the wife' you'd get the saucepans nicely fitted over your head or the tools would ensure that you sung soprano.  Wink 
    There are other wives.  Happy

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  • rogher
    rogher Forum Participant Posts: 609
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    edited December 2015 #7

    Surprise her 

     

    get the tools.

  • volvoman9
    volvoman9 Forum Participant Posts: 1,053
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    edited December 2015 #8

    Hmmm...................a tough one.

    Play safe and feign total memory loss for the next two weeks Happy

    v9

  • taffyY
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    edited December 2015 #9

    If you called me 'the wife' you'd get the saucepans nicely fitted over your head or the tools would ensure that you sung soprano.  Wink 
    There are other wives.  Happy

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    Jill, I think that you and I would get along really well!  Laughing  To me, 'The wife' is only one notch up from "The Missus"!!  Sealed

  • tombar
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    edited December 2015 #10

    If you called me 'the wife' you'd get the saucepans nicely fitted over your head or the tools would ensure that you sung soprano.  Wink 
    There are other wives.  Happy

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    Jill, I think that you and I would get along really well!  Laughing  To me, 'The wife' is only one notch up from "The Missus"!!  Sealed

    I too would use the saucepans on your head and the tools to remove them - like an electric sawKiss

  • paul56
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    edited December 2015 #11

    So was buying as new iron a bad idea??

  • milliehull
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    edited December 2015 #12

    If you called me 'the wife' you'd get the saucepans nicely fitted over your head or the tools would ensure that you sung soprano.  Wink 
    There are other wives.  Happy

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    Write your comments here...

    Well said Jill.Happy

  • huskydog
    huskydog Club Member Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    edited December 2015 #13

    oh, you ladies are so hard to pleaseUndecided, looks like a trip to the jewellers Surprised................How
    MuchWink

  • Bob2112
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    edited December 2015 #14

    Hard one to call   Too little and you don't care.   Too much and you have a guilty conscience

  • JillwithaJay
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    edited December 2015 #15

    oh, you ladies are so hard to pleaseUndecided, looks like a trip to the jewellers Surprised................How MuchWink

    I saw a beautiful necklace in Jersey so OH went in (casual like) to enquire of its price ....  £37,000 - with matching bracelet at £20,000.

    I think it'll be Swarovski instead.  

    Jewellery is always acceptable to me Huskydog but price depends on you and it depends on what lifestyle you enjoy. I love necklaces and rings.  If your wife has pierced ears, it makes choosing a gift a little easier I think.

    We try not to go mad with gifts for each other these days, preferring that the family have  good gifts.  Happy

    Does your good lady not give out subtle hints or have you missed them?  Wink

    Best of luck.

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  • Tammygirl
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    edited December 2015 #16

    We've stopped doing presents it seems silly, if we want something we buy it, why wait to see if someone will buy it for you. My sister and BIL buy what they want then hand it to each other for wrapping up then they put them under the tree to open on Christmas
    morning. I stopped dropping hints to OH years ago as he never listenedSurprised so took the approach "you can get me that for Christmas
    if you like" wait till Christmas day to find not what I had suggested but something else that 'he' thought I might likeFrown 

  • XTB 907
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    edited December 2015 #17

    I fail to understand what women see in jewellery - give me a nice saw anyday Laughing

  • ABM
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    edited December 2015 #18

    A  years  Supply  Of  Marigolds  ( small )  then  she  won't  need  the  hand/wrist  jewellery  --  since  they  will  be  permanently  covered  by  the  gloves  !  Innocent    

     Problem   Solved   Wink

  • huskydog
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    edited December 2015 #19

    We never spend a lot on each other at Christmas , as I Usally give her plenty of surprises through out the year SmileSurprised

    I've gone for a compromise ...a set of saucepans with jewel encrusted handles......I might get a saw in return,but of the "sore" varietyCool, ouch
    that hurt dearFrown

  • Wherenext
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    edited December 2015 #20

    Is it compulsory to buy an earring for each ear? Trying to economise this year.

  • ValDa
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    edited December 2015 #21

    For years David and I (David hereafter referred to as 'The Partner;) have kept lists of 'Things I would like...........'   These are updated whenever we see anything we like, and just before Christmas with things we need............!  By Christmas these
    lists can run to quite a lot of very varied items.

    Our family do the same, and about a month before Christmas we exchange lists.  That way someone can choose whether to buy 'the partner' the crowbar, the North Yorkshire Ordnance Survey map, or the spade that he really wants, or the bottle of very special
    wine that's also on his list.  They can choose the nice pearl earrings that are on mine, or the more essential new measuring jug, digital scales, or the 'I would very much like this' Paul Carrack CD that I also put on my list!  I hope someone's taken the hint!

     

  • brue
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    edited December 2015 #22

    It's just surprises in this household, it seems to work most years.Smile

  • Wherenext
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    edited December 2015 #23

    For years David and I (David hereafter referred to as 'The Partner;) have kept lists of 'Things I would like...........'   These are updated whenever we see anything we like, and just before Christmas with things we need............!  By Christmas these
    lists can run to quite a lot of very varied items.

    Our family do the same, and about a month before Christmas we exchange lists.  That way someone can choose whether to buy 'the partner' the crowbar, the North Yorkshire Ordnance Survey map, or the spade that he really wants, or the bottle of very special
    wine that's also on his list.  They can choose the nice pearl earrings that are on mine, or the more essential new measuring jug, digital scales, or the 'I would very much like this' Paul Carrack CD that I also put on my list!  I hope someone's taken the hint!

     

    Write your comments here...if "the partner" has any sense he'll rush off tomorrow and buy it. Aldi is selling them at £3.99 and it's a 1 litre, Pyrex made, one as well. 

  • Bob2112
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    edited December 2015 #24

    It's just surprises in this household, it seems to work most years.Smile

    Write your comments here...It takes some effort to get that WOW! look on her face but it's worth it.

  • brue
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    edited December 2015 #25

    I'm now slightly worried that it's going to be something for my bike.....Wink

  • huskydog
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    edited December 2015 #26

    I'm now slightly worried that it's going to be something for my bike.....Wink

    A new bell???

  • nelliethehooker
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    edited December 2015 #27

    I'm now slightly worried that it's going to be something for my bike.....Wink

    Air for the tyres???Winking

  • KjellNN
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    edited December 2015 #28

    We've stopped doing presents it seems silly, if we want something we buy it, why wait to see if someone will buy it for you. My sister and BIL buy what they want then hand it to each other for wrapping up then they put them under the tree to open on Christmas
    morning. I stopped dropping hints to OH years ago as he never listenedSurprised so took the approach "you can get me that for Christmas
    if you like" wait till Christmas day to find not what I had suggested but something else that 'he' thought I might likeFrown 

    Similar here.   We generally treat ourselves to something for the house that we want but don't REALLY need.

  • Bob2112
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    edited December 2015 #29

    Romance lives on.

  • bestboy
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    edited December 2015 #30

    Nip into Ann  Summers and buy something totally inappropriate.  Could be the best Chrissy ever!

  • nelliethehooker
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    edited December 2015 #31

    Nip into Ann  Summers and buy something totally inappropriate.  Could be the best Chrissy ever!

    But what do you get the Mrs BB?Wink