Adult only

Dadof2
Dadof2 Forum Participant Posts: 5
edited May 2018 in Certificated Locations #1

Why as a full member of the club, 15 years, am I not aloud to go to some C/L sites.

How can c/l sites discriminate against family's .c/s are sent up with the help of the club under a certificate held by the club for club members.   

 

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  • Dawn F
    Dawn F Forum Participant Posts: 167
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    edited May 2018 #3

    You are allowed to go to all CL's, just not allowed to take your children!

    Surely you wouldn't want them somewhere either not safe or not welcome

  • Dadof2
    Dadof2 Forum Participant Posts: 5
    edited May 2018 #5

    Without AO CLs, there would be fewer within the CAMC fold but there are plenty of others to choose from. They enhance the choice without detracting from the mainstream sites for use by all.

     

    They do enhance my choice and in many parts of country there is no C/l choice for families.

  • Tinwheeler
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    edited May 2018 #7

    I find it hard to believe there are areas where the only CLs are AO, tbh.

    Would you care to give some examples?

    However, accepting that you are correct, without those AO sites there would be no CLs at all and none of us could stay. Therefore, AO Sites do at least provide pitches for many members use.

  • moulesy
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    edited May 2018 #8

    "They do enhance my choice and in many parts of country there is no C/l choice for families."

    That does surprise me, though I must admit I haven't  actually done any research. Whereabouts?

  • EmilysDad
    EmilysDad Forum Participant Posts: 8,973
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    edited May 2018 #9

    You can please some of the people all of the time & all the people some of the time ........ 😉

  • eurortraveller
    eurortraveller Club Member Posts: 6,829 ✭✭✭
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    edited May 2018 #10

    We can all choose. I myself chose to stay away from Adult Only sites - I have a feeling I wouldn't like the mindset of the people who go there. 

  • Kennine
    Kennine Forum Participant Posts: 3,472
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    edited May 2018 #11

    I don't blame farmers for making their CL Adults only.  When farm machinery is being used, livestock is being moved or crops are being stored the farmer does not want the responsibility of a child being injured or worse.  Not all parents are vigilant all the time. 

    I would suggest that a good rule of thumb would be CL's for couples and CMC full blown sites for families. 

  • Wherenext
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    edited May 2018 #12

    Actually EuroT we use Adult only sites from time to time but it will be because the site is the best choice for that particular area and in all aspects fits our remit, not that it happens to be AO. This philosophy also applies to Independent sites etc.

  • moulesy
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    edited May 2018 #14

    Many CLs are ideal for families with young children - more space and greater freedom for youngsters to let off steam. And of course, at a more reasonable price for families at some times of the year.

    I would suggest a good rule of thumb is to let every one choose the most suitable site for themselves from sites available, be that Club Sites, Commercials, CLs, CSs etc but to remember that we are guests and it's up to CL owners themselves to decide who they invite to use their sites - obviously members only though! wink

  • HelenandTrevor
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    edited May 2018 #15

    We really enjoyed using CL'S as a family, we tried to find ones that had lplenty of space for the boys to let off steam, without annoying others. There were times when it was hard to find ones that welcomed families in some areas.  It is however down to the CL owners whether they accept children or not. 

    I still like to see families enjoying time on a CL. 

  • Dadof2
    Dadof2 Forum Participant Posts: 5
    edited May 2018 #16

    agree with you East T.

    We like the more basic sites .Full CMC club site can work out expensive for families. We have all need in the van ,we only need water and toilet empting.  We do not spend a lot of time in the caravan ,we get out and about.  

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    best choice for that particular area and in all aspects fits our remit

     agree  wherenext

     

  • dreamer1
    dreamer1 Forum Participant Posts: 141
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    edited May 2018 #17

    Because some members dont want kids playing ball, running round screaming near their caravans because parents cant control them . Im sure there are plenty of children friendly sites available in the club to choose from.

  • Dadof2
    Dadof2 Forum Participant Posts: 5
    edited May 2018 #18

    Kids should not be running around wild, not any site out of control. We are all club member and cl site are part of the club so should be open to all .  

  • harryb
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    edited May 2018 #20

    Firstly, why after 15 years membership what causes you to just ask this now.

    Secondly, The adults only sites are a very low percentage of the overall number of cl's. If you look at your own and neighbouring county of Lancashire the percentage of adult only sites is 17%. If you take that as a mean figure across the board then that works out at about 450 adult only sites in the book, not a lot really. So there is plenty left to choose from surely.

    I prefer adult only sites and dog free sites but then we are talking a very small minority indeed. I just accept that, bite the bullet and select one from the area I wish to go

  • Takethedogalong
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    edited May 2018 #21

    It's a difficult one for CL owners sometimes, damned if they do, damned if they don't. We had first hand experience a short while ago as to how bad parenting could radically alter a site. We were only bystanders luckily, but other visitors had their stay made less than perfect, and the very nice owner, who had carefully explained a few common sense do's and don'ts was left pondering on what to do for the best. Let down badly by two sets of parents. Won't stop us using family sites, but we pick our dates and locations carefully. As with a number of things in life, it only takes a few wrong ones to spoil things for the majority. 

  • cyberyacht
    cyberyacht Forum Participant Posts: 10,218
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    edited May 2018 #22

    Perhaps there should be an "Oscar Wilde" search category - no dogs or children. wink

  • EasyT
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    edited May 2018 #23

    That seems to be a tad judgemental to me. I have, as far as I can recall, never been on an adult only site. I have used s few sites that have adult only areas such as some Morris Leisure sites. I have however booked an adults only site as part of a tour at the End of August/Start September purely because the site is where I want to be located.

  • mickysf
    mickysf Forum Participant Posts: 6,474 ✭✭✭
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    edited May 2018 #24

    One's judgement, rightly or wrongly, is based on experience. We stayed on an AO site once which was comprised of mainly seasonal touring vans, that experience added to my judgement and opinion. Not sure whether it was the OA or seasonal aspect which formed the 'ambience' of the place mind or a combination of both. Thankfully I consider myself open minded and can modify my opinions and beliefs. Maybe future, hopefully different, experiences would help. Just need to stay/need to stay, on one mind.

  • Kennine
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    edited May 2018 #25

    Sensible retailers of goods and services tailor their business to cater for a wide range of customers tastes.  In other words they offer their customers "choice". The old fashioned idea of one size fits all is so last century.   Sites which offer various options like No dogs or Adults only can easily co-exist with traditional sites which cater for everybody.  That gives customers the options which best suits their circumstances.  A win win situation all round. 

    cool

  • mickysf
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    edited May 2018 #26

    Duplicated post Deleted User, apologies, my quick fingersembarassed.

  • mickysf
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    edited May 2018 #27

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  • mickysf
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    edited May 2018 #28

     

    Sensible retailers also find that niche market, that something different which, while appealing to the minority, still has a viable customer base. The club's niche market is caravaners and motorhomers and being inclusive across the club site network to all members. It works.

    Let a few CLs and the odd AS site cover the 'rest' as they already do.

  • Kennine
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    edited May 2018 #29

    I understand where you are coming from micky.  But modern customers like choice.  Why deny that option.  Give the customer a range of products. --- So long as the traditional option is still available, traditional customers would still be catered for.  The world moves on. It's a matter of modern "Choice" or old fashioned "No choice".

    K

  • mickysf
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    edited May 2018 #30

    I think I would not be pleased if a club site didn't allow a child, baby or children. Conversely nor would I be pleased if a club site didn't allow us who are child free on a family site. Neither would be inclusive to all members which I believe is the way of this modern world, inclusivity to all members is that greater choice.

  • Takethedogalong
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    edited May 2018 #31

    I suppose life's experiences colour one's choices. Having had the thrill of a howling baby for a full week in the next tent one holiday, we have become a tad wary. The family were very nice, we didn't complain, nothing anyone can do, just life. But I don't think we slept properly for a week. The family themselves gave up and went home after a week. That little chap is probably in his late twenties now.........