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bestboy
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edited July 2016 in General Chat #1

According  to press reports local bus services in Dorset have erected signs encouraging polite queueing following reports of O.A.P. passengers barging, queue jumping etc in order to gain the best seats on coastal bus routes, mainly the Bournmouth to Swanage
"breezer" service. In some cases young children have been pushed aside and some having stood aside receive no word of thanks.

What sort of example does this set the youth of today and who would complain loudest if youngsters behaved like that?

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  • bestboy
    bestboy Forum Participant Posts: 302
    edited July 2016 #2
  • brue
    brue Forum Participant Posts: 21,176 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    edited July 2016 #3

     

    does that work /edit/no it didn'tFrown

    They breed 'em tough in Dorset...Wink

     

     

  • bestboy
    bestboy Forum Participant Posts: 302
    edited July 2016 #4

    www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/07/13/pensioners-warned-about-queuing-etiquette-as-scuffles-break-out

    does that work

    sadly it doesn't, but the story can be found by searching Swanage

     

  • Rubytuesday
    Rubytuesday Forum Participant Posts: 952
    edited July 2016 #5

    I find age doesn't really matter how or who are the worst for manners

    the elderly on many accasion's are so rude we always taught our boys to hold doors open if they were first ect very often not a word of thanks from the old miserable demanding wringlies
    Yell  So I would poke them in the arm and tell them Ho ! "Is a thank you to much to ask "as for the young they to are very rude not because there
    bad but because they have there heads stuck in there phones , the very young need to be taught by there parents, but I find manners becoming very much non exsistent between all ages 

    only a few weeks ago there was a news report a wheelchair person was asked to leave the bus because a young mum had her pushchair in the place for his chair and refused to move it , even though the sign said "polite notice please give up for wheelchairs
    she only had to fold it down but flatly refused saying it was a polite notice not a demand Yell imagine what her kids will grow up to be like 

  • moulesy
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    edited July 2016 #6

    You can see good and bad manners from all sorts of folk, young, old and middle aged, just as you can see good and bad manners in all areas of life, including, dare I say it, on this forum! Surprised

  • Tinwheeler
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    edited July 2016 #7
  • JVB66
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    edited July 2016 #8

    Both our 11yr old boy grandsprogs get real short shrift if they do not say please or thankyou,one has advised us that he is getting to old for thatUndecided as it is not the modern wayYell

  • JVB66
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    edited July 2016 #9

    We used the "Wheezer "when in Dorset and did not notice any of the said bad manners,unless it happened after we got on? there were a lot of people waiting the "wrong side" of the stop when we got onCool

  • Kennine
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    edited July 2016 #10

    Good manners and politeness costs nothing. It can however make a huge difference to those whom you come in contact especially those who may be in a vulnerable period of their lives.

    Who knows we might be in that situation ourselves in the future.

    K

     

  • volvoman9
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    edited July 2016 #11

    Queue is one thing i cant abide by anyone.

    v9

  • tombar
    tombar Forum Participant Posts: 408
    edited July 2016 #12

    I too see bad manners everywhere.  On the road, on public transport, even in hospitals - so sad to see

  • papgeno
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    edited July 2016 #13

    Manners maketh Man

  • Rubytuesday
    Rubytuesday Forum Participant Posts: 952
    edited July 2016 #14

    And No manners maketh us all Mad Laughing

  • redface
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    edited July 2016 #15

    Sometimes it is difficult to see which side of the bus stop one should queue. Upstream or downstream?

  • tigerfish
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    edited July 2016 #16

    Actually of late I have often been impressed by politeness especially ( Strangely enough) on the London Underground.

    My position required me to travel to London at least once a month,- sometimes more, and go to Westminster to see ministers etc.  On arrival at Paddington I would take the Bakerloo line to Baker St and then the Jubilee Line to Westminster.

    At that time & before my recent "Op" my back was very bad so I was using a stick. Each section of my journey was quite short, 3 or 4 stops so I wasn't bothered about sitting down, but on almost every occasion some young person would leap up and offer their
    seat to me.  Sometimes it was quite embarrassing but it would have been very rude to have rejected the offer!

    So Politeness and Courtesy has not entirely gone away!

    TF

  • tombar
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    edited July 2016 #17

    I'd broken my ankle a few years ago and in plaster with a boot.  My OH was in hospital so was visiting him after work.  Getting on the bus, and as it was rush hour, it was standing room only.  No one offered me a seat, and worst of all a very pregnant woman
    was also standing, and surprising of all, not one sitting woman offered her a seatYell

  • roytonrebel
    roytonrebel Forum Participant Posts: 41
    edited July 2016 #18

    The concessionary bus pass allows people to travel  after half nine  weekdays,,,  not before ,,,        Just Saying .  

  • tigerfish
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    edited July 2016 #19

    Um, What? .........

    TF

  • Hakinbush
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    edited July 2016 #20

    Now if you really want to see bad manners in a queue, go to a  ski lift, just watch our euro "friends" the germans especially, and before you all shout "BREXIT" i didnt vote I was in France at the time and was'nt sure one way or another..

  • tigerfish
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    edited July 2016 #21

    My experiences in Majorca earlier this year suggests that the Germans have now been made to look like pussycats!

    Its the Russians that are agressive, - push in, reserve all the chairs and then don't actually use them. Then when hotel staff remove the towels, they cause an unholy row when they re appear after lunch and set about causing mayhem!

    They are big, loud and aggressive! And that was long before the Euro's

    TF