Take a visually impaired person

kyle1987
kyle1987 Forum Participant Posts: 2

Hi all i am going on our first trip in the next week however i have a blind (VIP) wife anyone have any advice on back into a pitch (no motor mover yet) and pitching up 

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  • JVB66
    JVB66 Forum Participant Posts: 22,892
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    edited July 2022 #5

    I have often in the past offered to help,,not so much now (age and health  problems) but many time it was refused even quite abrupt a few times 

  • Takethedogalong
    Takethedogalong Forum Participant Posts: 17,032 ✭✭✭
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    edited July 2022 #6

    That might be your experience Toby, but in 38 years on Club Sites and CLs it hasn’t been mine. I have had help, and have given help, both staff and other visitors. It also appears that the OP has been promised just the help they need, after another Member has answered their post within 30 minutes. I’d call call that game, set and match to the nice people myself!👍😁

  • richardandros
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    edited July 2022 #7

    I have to smile at this - in terms of helping people.  Whilst we were away, recently, at the Charmouth C&CC site, an elderly couple arrived (and I'm 72 - so not sure about the definition of 'elderly'!) - in a small Knaus caravan. There was an affinity there straight-away.  However, it was soon obvious that his motor mover wouldn't work and he was struggling to get the van onto his pitch. He was yelling and screaming at his wife and chucking things around so it was obvious he was having a bad day.  I went over to him and offered to help and I can't print on here what he actually said, but basically, he told me to go away and mind my own business.  Duly admonished, I came back to the van and watched as he put the van back on his car and started to reverse - with his jockey wheel down. Quick as a flash - and ever helpful, I dashed over to him - pointed out what he was doing and the fact that he was about to rip his jockey wheel off. Yet another tirade of unprintable abuse and this time I came back and left him to it.

    He then had a go at our neighbours who also offered to help.

    In fairness, he did come over later and apologise - half-heartedly - but it was his wife we felt sorry for. It won't stop me helping others in the future but it did make me think "there's now't as queer as folk"smile

     

  • JVB66
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    edited July 2022 #8

    As I posted ,it does make one wonder do I or don't I try to give assistance wink 

    Some years ago we were with some friends at Strid Wood site when a couple arrived  and were having problems getting on their chosen pitch ,it was as if a whistle had been. blown,as about Six of us all appeared at the same time to give assistance 

  • DEBSC
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    edited July 2022 #9

    Always remember once on site years ago, we had a new awning and were having a bit of difficulty putting it up. We would have worked it out in time and were probably best left to work it out for ourselves. Anyway the chap opposite came over and offered his help, we thanked him but said it was fine, he insisted but it soon became clear that he had less idea than us. Anyway we finally got it together, he then thanked us profusely for letting him help, turned out he had fallen out with his wife and wanted to get out of her way. An hour later wife came over and thanked us for keeping her husband busy and out of her way, she then went on to moan about him a lot. We never saw them together for the rest of the holiday, only going out separately, don’t think they were a happy couple. So, if you let someone help you might even be doing them a favour.

  • TobyLeeds
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    edited July 2022 #10

    I can only say that on helping a man in a similar position reverse onto the pitch he returned next day with a bottle of wine and profuse thanks saying no one ever came to his aid. Members preferred to hide in their vans and watch his repeated attempts to square up to the marker.

  • JVB66
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    edited July 2022 #11

    Was it a CL?cool