Towing course for couples?

black caviar
black caviar Forum Participant Posts: 242

I'm actually mrs black caviar and i would like to know why the caravan club dont do a mr&mrs towing course? my husband is the driver and would like to go on a towing course , but id like to go with him to learn about loading and hitching the caravan etc
, but i would never drive the car, we were going to book and pay for the two of us but it would be quite a waste for me as i wouldnt be driving ,i think its a shame as we would be holidaying as a team , but there doesnt seem to be a course for a couple (one
loading and hitching and one driving ) does anyone know if such a thing exists? Cheers mrs BC :)

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  • ValDa
    ValDa Forum Participant Posts: 3,004
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    edited January 2016 #2

    Here's one offering two for the price of one Caravan Handling courses, including towing, hitching and loading, and more:

    http://www.carandtrailerlessonsni.com/caravan-courses/

    The only problem is that it takes place in Northern Ireland!

    If your husband isn't confident towing then he could do the course, and you could just ask for tips about hitching up and loading.  There are many people who would be only glad to share their tips.

  • black caviar
    black caviar Forum Participant Posts: 242
    edited January 2016 #3

    Or perhaps i just want to know as much as him(frightened im missing out) and then i can boss him about like Hyacinth Bucket lol!! We havent been anywhere yet and are looking forward to our first trip  just not too sure where to go  quite fancy whitby cc
    for first one :)

  • Pippah45
    Pippah45 Forum Participant Posts: 2,452
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    edited January 2016 #4

    Mrs Black Caviar - from where I am sitting if you can afford to go with him I would if you have a driving licence of course!   Never - is a big word - and I have met lots of ladies on here who have found they really HAVE to tow.  One such lady I met on a site in Devon was in Africa when her husband became unwell and she reckonned by the time she got home she had learnt to tow!  It is so easy to have a mishap however small - I fell off my bike last year and was not allowed to drive for a week and had to call in my caravan rescue to get me to my son's house.  Not all rescue services will allow that if there is another able bodied driver in the party.  I was lucky enough to be thrown in the deep end of towing when I was 20 years old and my new husband expected me to drive his huge Landrover (never driven that before) and a horse trailer (mercifully without horses) all the way to Germany unaccompanied!   6 months later - back again with two animals on board!  (I did have a helper then but not a driver).  There are plenty of ladies out there who tow competently - its a very useful skill even if the other half does most of it. 

  • JillwithaJay
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    edited January 2016 #5

    If you're prepared to pay, why not take full advantage of the instruction offered so at least you're prepared in the event of any emergency.

    Whatever you decide, it has to be right for you and your husband.

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  • Kennine
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    edited January 2016 #6

    Has the OP ever thought about learning the basics from her husband who will have completed the towing course. He will be in possession of all the relevant information and can easily run through anything she needs to know when he returns home. 

    Simples !!!!!

     

    Smile

     

  • Catsize
    Catsize Forum Participant Posts: 73
    edited January 2016 #7

    Hello, if you hold a drivng licence, I also vote you do the course too. I broke my elbow on holiday last year (no caravan). Earlier that day, I had taught my partner how to drive the automatic hire car, as whilst she was insured, she had never driven an
    automatic. Good job really, as she had to follow the ambulance in the hire car with our children in the back.

    Another holiday last year, our 3yr olld son had an accident on a water slide and I was in the ambulance with him and she drove the hire car. 

    We are less than a year into this caravan malarkey and I very much intend to remain the main driver. However, we recognise that something as simple as a heavy cold or a stomach bug may mean Mrs Catsize has to do the towing one day. Oh, and last year's holidays
    taught us a lot! I did the course last year and she is booked in this year. 

    Mind you, we are two women with two young children, so a 'Mrs and Mrs' course with a baby sitting service would have been ideal.Laughing

  • EmilysDad
    EmilysDad Forum Participant Posts: 8,973
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    edited January 2016 #8

     ..... Earlier that day, I had taught my partner how to drive the automatic hire car, ...

    That's the GO pedal ...... that's the STOP pedal Innocent 

  • EmilysDad
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    edited January 2016 #9

    There's no way SWMBO will drive my car (R Class) let alone tow with it. 

  • Catsize
    Catsize Forum Participant Posts: 73
    edited January 2016 #10

    Not quite that easy MollysMummy. Not least the whole 'don't just take your foot off the brake when stopped - it will start moving again' business. Glad you could have got into an automatic and mastered the gearbox and pedals (having never driven one in your
    30yrs of driving), with zero instruction in a somewhat emergency situation in a foreign country in the snow. My OH is clearly not so gifted. Tongue Out

    Perhaps there is a reason your OH is reluctant! Happy

  • EmilysDad
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    edited January 2016 #11

    Not quite that easy MollysMummy. Not least the whole 'don't just take your foot off the brake when stopped - it will start moving again' business. Glad you could have got into an automatic and mastered the gearbox and pedals (having never driven one in your
    30yrs of driving), with zero instruction in a somewhat emergency situation in a foreign country in the snow. My OH is clearly not so gifted. Tongue Out

    Perhaps there is a reason your OH is reluctant! Happy

    I agree that an auto takes a little gettng used to ... old habits die hard, but 2 pedals are hardly difficult, I was driving my Dad's auto at 18/19, but have since had both at the same time in the last 35 of driving.

    The R Class is 'too big and has a funny transmission' .... apparently! Surprised

  • Catsize
    Catsize Forum Participant Posts: 73
    edited January 2016 #12

    I agree two pedals are not difficult. But I am not sure I could have given coherent instructions on the P, D, N etc. when morphined to the max! Happy

  • cyberyacht
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    edited February 2016 #13

    Perhaps someone can explain the subtle nuance between P and N? It seems to imply that P is leaving it in gear but presumably only stationary if the engine is switched off, in which case wouldn't D do the same?

  • Boff
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    edited February 2016 #14

    I think that P locks the gear box and wheels. Put simply the wheels won't go round. I once did this on our old pajero and put it in park when it was going at about 5 mph. it stopped dead. 

  • EmilysDad
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    edited February 2016 #15

    Neutral in an auto is exactly the same as in a manual ie not in any gear. Park is when the gearbox is mechanically locked .... effectively a pin engages and locks the box. Don't try to select Park when on the move ..... Surprised

  • AndyNYorks
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    edited February 2016 #16

    I would strongly suggest that it is worth your while learning how to tow, regardless of whether you intend to be the main driver or not. Over the years I have known many partners who have had to learn the hard way when the main driver has broken a wrist
    or ankle whilst away and so could not drive home. It is much better to learn in your own time than when you have that emergency.

  • Runrig
    Runrig Forum Participant Posts: 186
    edited February 2016 #17

    There's no way SWMBO will drive my car (R Class) let alone tow with it. 

    Same here (and it's only a C-Class Estate)

    Funny transmission, no proper hand brake, stop/start and "what is all that silly hill-hold-assist about?"

    I try to help "the clue is in the name dear... automatic"

    I keep trying, but get some excuse or other, usually

    "wearing the wrong shoes"

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    To the OP, if you have a licence, I think the CC day and a half course aimed at beginers would be ideal for you, all the basics, loading and hitching. Then you can have ago at manouvreing in a safe environment with tuition and then you at least know what
    to do, if you ever need to.

    Suggested it to SWMBO, but to no avail.

     

  • brue
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    edited February 2016 #18

    Having been stuck with a caravan and a sick husband I would say if you can drive then at least learn to use the tow car. I've had automatics for many years, large hefty vehicles and small nippy ones and they're easy. It's also good, if possible, to switch between manual and automatic so that you're confident with either. 

  • Biggarmac
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    edited February 2016 #19

    Has the OP thought about learning the basics from her husband who will have completed the towing course. He will be in possession of all the relevant information and can easily run through anything she needs to know when he returns home. 

    Simples !!!!!

     

    Smile

     

    Aye right. Recipe for marital disharmony.

  • black caviar
    black caviar Forum Participant Posts: 242
    edited February 2016 #20

    Youve hit the nail on the head there biggermac!!