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  • KjellNN
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    edited May 2023 #55503

    That is what OH is feeling too....the getting ready bit in particular.

    Although we are at home much more these days than back when I first retired in 2007, that is because our daughter now has 2 little ones and we and the other grandparents each volunteered to look after them 2 afternoons per week.

    So time away has to be negotiated between us, and also has to incorporate some school holidays, as Daddy is a teacher so can be home to look after them then, which means  we can get 4- 5 weeks away in one go.

    The oldest is 5 now, so off to school in August, but the other wee fellow has another 2 years at nursery.  Once he qualifies for the free hours, next February, he may go full time if we find it too tying and if DD can afford the extra fees.    Unfortunately their mortgage has to be renewed next month, probably at over double their present interest rate, so affording more nursery hours is probably not on the cards, plus of course we would miss seeing them all so often.

    They get the use of our caravan and really enjoy being away, they do 3 separate weeks at present, so I think we will keep going for another year or two, as long as the van holds out, it is  getting on a bit too!

    I have had the lecture about being careful from DD, and I am always careful.  I do have a good head for heights, which was needed in my work on oil platforms and large ships.  I have been up some flare towers while offshore, but that was a very long time ago now, the knees would not be up to that these days!  

    After climbing up and down the scaffold tower the other day, I discovered muscles I had completely forgotten about!

  • ABM
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    edited May 2023 #55504

    Fully understand your final sentence there, Kj  !!

    Went round to my niece's on the Sunday after the Coronation to be confronted by her daughter and a young ( 3and a half year-old ) gentleman who came straight to me for a fuss ! As much as I could do to pick the rascal up while his Mother and Grandparents tried so very hard not to laugh too loudly at my expense  embarassed.

    Then back home for a good dose of  Neuromol or some such pain relief  yell

  • DavidKlyne
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    edited May 2023 #55505

    Kj

    Do you have a local residents Facebook Page? Sometimes these are useful for finding local tradesmen and odd job people.  

    I find now that it takes me ages to summon up the enthusiasm to do things, despite having seemingly, lots of free time!!! Perhaps as you get older, thinking of my self here, you just don't have the capacity you once did. Such a change from when I was at work and the kids were young. I would come home from work, have a meal and then go out and wash the car or cut the grass or some other DIY job usually into the evening. Just can't do that now!

    David

  • DEBSC
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    edited May 2023 #55506

    I think, if I may say, that some of us are getting older but in our heads we still feel young, it’s not until we start to tackle some jobs that we realise we just don’t have the same energy anymore.

    Today I’ve done 3 loads of washing - well the machine has, then I weeded all the front garden and cut a lot back. Then washed down the paintwork around the front door. OH mowed the lawn, it’s all looking presentable again now. I was about to start on the back and just felt I needed a sit down, that’s why I’m on here. A few years ago I would have just carried on and tackled the back straight off. My mind is wanting to get on but my bodies not so keen. At least it’s reassuring to know some others feel the same.

  • heddlo
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    edited May 2023 #55508

    That’s such good news David.  Very pleased to hear that and that you are free to travel.  I’m sure you will be so relieved.  Continue to take things easy and in a few months hopefully you will more like your old self. 

  • DEBSC
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    edited May 2023 #55509

    Nice to hear some good news David. Take it easy and just build up your strength now. Lovely to have something to plan and look forward to.

  • Pliers
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    edited May 2023 #55510

    Wonderful news, David, and must have put your mind at rest 🙂. 
    Sardinia sounds great, plenty of warm sunshine, good food and excellent wine. 
    Enjoy. 💙

  • Bakers2
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    edited May 2023 #55511

    Great to read such good news.

    Build yourself up slowly. Sardina sounds like just the place to make a start.

  • Bakers2
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    edited May 2023 #55512

    That's good reassurance, thanks milliehull. I spent a long time trying to find Papworth site. Turns out they call it Addenbrookes.....

    'Restful' productive day which was nice. Chilly wind still but good to see some sun between the clouds! Garage doors painted today, back tomorrow to door the personal entry door tomorrow.

    Took OH for his shingles jab. He had blood test etc Friday afternoon.  Phone call from GP later regarding his BP being a bit low. Monitored it over the weekend, handed in results, so far no calls 🤞. They offered him pneumonia jab so that's next Monday.

    Did some washing, all dried nicely in the breeze. Then took to the block paving with the heat gun. Very therapeutic and satisfying. Big drops of rain a while ago, but came to nothing.

    Garden help tomorrow, turf laying to reduce a border width and neaten up the borders either side of the new steps into the garden. Had planted all purchased plants BUT church had a sale of plants on Saturday....... table's full again.

  • Wherenext
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    edited May 2023 #55513

    It's strange isn't it? There are a few recent posts stating how people felt when they took the decision to sell the caravan/motorhome and there a few people like your good self, David, and myself who were overjoyed to find ourselves either contemplating packing the caravan or doing it and it is such a mundane chore. But after an illness and not being able to do this we find ourselves hankering after the places we want to visit or simply slipping back into our routine. No disrespect to anyone who has taken the choice to stop by the way.

    I don't know about yourself, but suspect, but we were thrilled just to know we could carry on and hope that we too can venture further afield whether in the UK or abroad. 

    Glad to hear of the consultation results and wish you all the best.

  • Wherenext
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    edited May 2023 #55514

    We had a gentle, if a bit longer than it should have been, drive over to our next CL, situate in a huge paddock. Pitch anyway you want. About 6-7 miles west of Scarborough. Sun has shone all afternoon and all seems well with the world especially with a glass of Adnams Broadside to help.

    It was a lovely 6 nights at College Farm along with spending some time meeting up with the Ttdas'. Carers deserve holidays or at least time off themselves.

    We'll probably have to do a bit more driving over the next week but don't mind that in the least.

    ABM - Thanks. I like the Mandarins as well.smile

  • KjellNN
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    edited May 2023 #55515

    Not bad today, mainly sunny with a few showers.  We agreed to take childcare today from the other GPs, Granny had double booked a lunch.

    So, down  at DD's at 09.30 to look at why her spare oven in the utility room has been tripping the RCD on the main fuseboard.  Was fine when I first installed it, so something has changed.  OH had things to do at home so came at lunch time. 

    The house has a complex electrical system, not easy to ascertain what's connected to what, no proper labelling of circuits etc.  We got the oven out and checked it over, could  not find anything wrong, but it still trips the main RCD.   I am now thinking there must be a problem in the existing wiring, so need to think how to proceed.  Fortunately the wiring is accessible under the floor, so I can always just renew the all the cables.

    Otherwise, we had the boys out in the garden for quite a while till a rain shower came over, then read stories, and played with their wooden train set until Mummy was finished her work.  Daddy is away for several days due to work....exam marking meeting......so she is on her own for a bit.

    Now lining up a few jobs to do here tomorrow, weather permitting, then back at DD's on Wednesday and Thursday.

  • milliehull
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    edited May 2023 #55516

    Such good news AD. It must have been very reassuring to hear. Enjoy your holiday you definitely deserve it.

    The Cathedral arranged a coach trip to St Albans today for some of the volunteers and what a wonderful day we have had. I hope that I can  add some photos. I particularly like the little addition of a man wearing face mask added recently when they were restoring the shrine of Sr Amphibalus.

  • KjellNN
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    edited May 2023 #55517

    Excellent news David, hope you enjoy your trip!

  • DSB
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    edited May 2023 #55518

    That's really good news ABM.  A good step in the right direction...  👍👍👍

    David

  • Wherenext
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    edited May 2023 #55519

    Looks lovely Millie.

    OH and self have said that we would like to incorporate St.Albans into a mini tour as it's a place we'd like to visit and there a few other places nearby that look interesting. Not an area we have been to before.

  • KjellNN
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    edited May 2023 #55520

    Glad it is not just me!    As DEBSC said, my age in my head does not match what my body feels.

    I think we may well have a local FB page, OH will know.

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  • brue
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    edited May 2023 #55522

    Good news David, onwards and upwards at your own pace. smile

    Lovely photos Millie, good to get out on trips to see something so interesting.

    Going to try and be like Goldie on our present Devon trip and not do too much! 🙃 

  • Goldie146
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    edited May 2023 #55523

    Not doing too much is all well and good when you’re away - but it’s a bit of a jolt getting back into it when you get back. Early alarms this morning - 05:00 for OH then 06:30 for me. 

  • HelenandTrevor
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    edited May 2023 #55524

     

    Early start this morning, weather perfect for drying all the holiday washing, so all pegged out before breakfast, and all dry when I came home from work.

    OH has been busy doing a few running repairs on the van, discovered  a few more screws that were missing, where do they go? Also had to replace the fitting on the gas pipe to the water heater as it had a split.

    I was back at work, as usual after having some time off the paperwork was a mess, had been left a note to say boss had managed to mix up all the week's  POD's 😫 took me ages to match deliveries to the correct paperwork.

    AD, great news hope all goes well, and you can get away soon.

    Lovely pictures Millie, glad you had a good day.

    Enjoy doing nothing in Devon Brue.

  • InaD
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    edited May 2023 #55525

    That's excellent news David, I'm so pleased for you.  To be able to start looking forward to trips away again must be a real boost after all those uncertain months.

    A trip to Sardinia will be just the ticket, wishing you all the best.

  • ABM
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    edited May 2023 #55526

    OOPS !! I think David [ DSB ] that you meant to say A D ( Another David ) laughing

    And I also am pleased AD has had some really good news after his trials lately,  onward and upward !!  

  • richardandros
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    edited May 2023 #55527

    Great news David - must be such a relief.  Just take it steady!

    Ros has some good news as well - MRI scan booked for the 25th of this month and the hospital was most apologetic that she was having to wait that long - but that was the first available slot they had because they are so busy. At least we should know soon after, what we are dealing with. 

    I did 4 loads of washing yesterday (well, the machine did!) - all dried and ready for my Iron Man session later. Think I need to hire a housekeepersmile

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  • Bakers2
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    edited May 2023 #55529

    Good to hear progress with investigations is going forward. I heard pre pandemic that private health care has waiting lists these day  as so many folks paying for themselves.

    Your house is too becoming a purple zone 💜.  Our house became one four and a half years ago. No pink or blue jobs, not that there were many in our case to begin with. Always good to have the human manual to consult 😉.

    Got up to find dishwasher hadn't done its job, one of the few blue jobs to put it on as he retires. Mutter mutter 🤐. All lights come on with symbols and programmes.manual doesn't cover that..... Try it whizzes down the hours and minutes numbers within seconds. Google reminded me turn it off and turn it on 😃. Why doing never try that?? Not done any good. Luckily it's under warranty. But that doesn't make the dishes clean now!

    Quite a double taken looking out the window - to a sunny morning 🌄.  Garage doors appeared open, then remembered they've been painted to blue not yuk green 🤣😉

    Garden help this morning and I may need to labour for turf laying! Painter to do personal door to garage...

    Milliehull we 'did' St Albans cathedral several years ago, lovely. We went to a remembrance event, name of which escapes me, very immersive with poppies appearing to fall, poems etc. Takethedogalong well worth a trip, lots of history and a lovely area to explore.

    Must shift dishes to do, dog to walk etc,I don't reckon I'll make garden club tonight - it's an outing but 5pm start at gardens 7 miles away. If chores are finished will I have the energy? 🤣😢😢

  • DEBSC
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    edited May 2023 #55530

    Good news that Ros has her MRI date. When I mention to OH that I have done a pile of ironing he always replies, ‘why’. He just wouldn’t bother, but I have to have my clothes and definitely the duvet covers ironed.

    Very late start this morning, two nights now coughing badly and little sleep, think I may have or be getting a chest infection as generally under the weather again, Covid really did a number on us. I had to cancel my  hygienist appointment, can’t go like this.

    Going to start on the back garden though, getting on my nerves looking at it and it might do me good, I love cutting it all back. Beautiful weather not a cloud in the sky but not too hot, perfect for the job in hand. Hope you are coming to Devon soon Brue to take advantage it looks fair all this week.

  • Takethedogalong
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    edited May 2023 #55531

    Good to hear there’s progress for those who are or have been poorly. When OH was really bad a few years ago, our solace was the occasional night or two out in between treatments. Same now with my caring duties. And lovely to say a proper hello to likeminded chums and share some laughs, thank you to the Wherenext’s👍😁

    We treat ourselves to a delicious full breakfast yesterday from the CL’s village tearooms. That set us up for a day of discovery across the Humber, back in Yorkshire. Drove through Hull and out the East side up towards a coastal village we haven’t visited before, Aldbrough. Sadly, church was locked, but we walked round outside, then went past to coast itself. A real soberer, the road just drops over the cliff, and there’s serious erosion, Cliff rock falls. Some of the little homes are in serious danger, and staff were busily evacuating the front pitches of a static caravan park. You could hear the waves pounding underneath the drop off, and there’s only around 20 metres or so between the edge and those pitches, so they could disappear soon.

    After a short walk with the hound, it was back on the coast road heading South again, called in at another small church, sadly again locked, but still interesting. Garton, looks very interesting inside. We passed Admiral Storr’s Tower, listed monument, another church rebuilt in the 1950’s after the old one was hit by WW2 bomb and destroyed. Called into Winchelsea for a coffee and bun (as you do🤣). This place is a bit of a fishing secret, some of the best crab’s in the UK are caught here and it has a thriving crab pot industry. Lovely statue of a………….crab.😁

    Swung back inland, towards Partington, and could see a very tall ornate church steeple in front of us, drew us like a magnet, and yes, it was open. Fabulous very old church, huge given it’s location. Superb inside and out, very ornate with some beautiful gargoyles and carvings inside. History booklet says it might have been a practice run for York Minster. Well worth a good look around if anyone is in the area. A good end to a great day exploring. Back via Hull and Humber bridge.