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  • Firedragon
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    edited November 2016 #62

    Try to stay positive (and preferably beligerant too Wink) Mick, the radiology is tiring (just been through seven & a half weeks of it with my OH)
    weekends off and by sunday just starting to recover and realise it all starts again monday!! but the time did pass quite quickly believe it or not, it just takes as many weeks again to settle down to 'normality' but hopefully you will adjust to it and not
    have too many side effects. We are all thinking of you and willing you on Kiss

    Alison xx

  • Kennine
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    edited November 2016 #63

    All the best Mick

    The Mcmillan organisation supporting cancer sufferers is fantastic. --- Excellent caring people..

    What would be great, is if there was a Mcmillan type organisation supporting those in the acute stages of Pulminory, Cardiac, and the many more terminal illnesses.  

  • Pippah45
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    edited November 2016 #64

    Marie Curie is now there for any terminal illness - not just Cancer - hence the recent "rebranding" so please tell anyone in need of end of life care.   And of course please give generously when the collectors are about Smile

    I am humbled at the amount people give when I do collections - its not a job I enjoy a lot but it can be very heart warming.  And I hope I will get end of life care when I need it - so on with the thermals and the smile Happy

  • Kennine
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    edited November 2016 #65

    Marie Curie is now there for any terminal illness - not just Cancer - hence the recent "rebranding" so please tell anyone in need of end of life care.   And of course please give generously when the collectors are about Smile

    I am humbled at the amount people give when I do collections - its not a job I enjoy a lot but it can be very heart warming.  And I hope I will get end of life care when I need it - so on with the thermals and the smil

    Write your comments here...Thats useful information Pippa - Thanks. 

    K

  • ABM
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    edited November 2016 #66

    Pippah,  I  find  fewer  &  fewer  Collecting  Boxes  etc  around  These  Days.

    I  save  all  coppers  &  5s  &  10s  put  them  in  my  camera  bag  in  little  containers ( actually  the  'pots'  my  blood-test  strips  come  in  !! )  But  only a  few  Fair  Organs  &  very,  very  few  Engines  collect  now  so I  have  to  wander 
    round  the  stalls  activly  looking  for  somewhere  to  leave  my  money !!  The  Result  is  in  a  few  weeks  the  Round  Table  Santa  Claus  Collectors  will  find  a  Stone  &  a  Quarter  of  (very)  small  change  dumped  on  them  !!  Sometimes 
    I  think  they  only send  the  youngest,  or  the  loser  of  their  own  raffle  to 
    my  door  ,, ,, ,, ,, ,,

  • Pippah45
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    edited November 2016 #67

    Its very hard to find people who will stand with a tin - main collections are now done at Supermarkets etc.  I find it difficult to get hold of a Poppy or two at this time  of year too. 

    So if anyone hears the call to give a couple of hours to Macmillan or Marie Curie - please think of doing it!  I am very tempted to open my mouth at the rude non-givers who might well need the service one day.  It's absolutely fine walking past but totally unnecessary to get stroppy!   Marie Curie suggest £1 donation - I wish people knew that - as counting all those pennies is quite a task - but hey every little helps! 

  • ValDa
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    edited November 2016 #68

    I don't think charities should have a minimum donation, to be honest.  I can understand the idea behind it, but surely the few pence from someone who has very very little, should be just as welcome as the fat cheque from a fat cat?   

    I was quite shocked to see a notice on the poppy stall in our local supermarket that the minimum donation was £1 - and witnessed a little girl walk away crying because she read the notice and obviously didn't think she had enough to buy a poppy. 

    I'll continue to give whatever I can to those charities I support, but come the day when I can only afford a smaller amount, should I stop giving?

  • ABM
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    edited November 2016 #69

    NO  NO  NO  !!

    You  can  give  What  You  Can,  Where  you  can,  Because  you  can  and  just  be  satisfied  That  You  Have  Helped,  Valda  !!  Your  few  pennies  or whatever  just  might  be  the  vital  funds  to  help  keep somebody  alive  !

  • Pippah45
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    edited November 2016 #70

    Yes ValDa I quite agree there should be no minimum and all the collectors I know ignore the "dictate" from above.  With Marie Curie it is "suggested donation" although I can see that small change takes more time to count - its all part of the whole thing
    - if youngsters are put off donating - it bodes badly for the future. 

  • Bakers2
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    edited November 2016 #71

    Yes ValDa I quite agree there should be no minimum and all the collectors I know ignore the "dictate" from above.  With Marie Curie it is "suggested donation" although I can see that small change takes more time to count - its all part of the whole thing
    - if youngsters are put off donating - it bodes badly for the future. 

    I put the small coins to one side, this is 1, 2 and 5 pences, larger coins if I have a lot.  We are not allowed to pay them into the bank without limits and there are counting machines which take a percentage.  I know they take time to count etc but they
    are better than nothing.  I am quite happy to empty my pot of schapnel for charity, if they're lucky they may get quite a bit. I'm very happy to donate what I can to charities I support but will give casually too, but it won't be notes! 

    It's slightly off topic but if no-one and that includes charities wants the small coins maybe they should be scrapped and we go over to Swedish rounding (they use it in New Zealand 5 and under down 6 up to nearest dollar, payment by card to the cent, there
    few carry cash so charity boxes are generally light).  Such things a poppies, daffodils etc will be very hard to acquire, leading to more people buying once and never giving again???

  • Pippah45
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    edited November 2016 #72

    I would certainly support scrapping 1ps and 2ps - I must have counted nearly £700 this year with a large proportion of that in small coins - add to that the local branch of Marie Curie's Bank is now a mobile unit that won't take "business account" money..Don't cry
    Driving to the next branch and parking is not something I am prepared to do - so it looks as though they may have lost me as a collector.  (Unless they allow me to put it in my bank which so far they have refused to do)

  • ValDa
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    edited November 2016 #73

    I used to wor

    I would certainly support scrapping 1ps and 2ps - I must have counted nearly £700 this year with a large proportion of that in small coins - add to that the local branch of Marie Curie's Bank is now a mobile unit that won't take "business account" money..Don't cry.  Driving to the next branch and parking is not something I am prepared to do - so it looks as though they may have lost me as a collector.  (Unless they allow me to put it in my bank which so far they have refused to do)

    I used to work for a large national charity, organising street collections (when envelopes were dropped through your door and collected by volunteers).  Every month I had thousands of pounds to count, most of it in very small change.  Then my parents offered to help, and spent a couple of days each month just counting and sorting money (because all the coins had to be sorted separately for the bank).  My parents loved doing it - my Dad especially who loved sorting the coins into different types, and did it like a bank teller, over the edge of the counter and into a special box he'd made!

    One night, after going around all our volunteers, I'd filled the back of the car with bags full of envelopes full of cash (wouldn't be allowed these days) and somehow, inadvertently, left the boot open whilst it was parked outside the house.  Fortunately, it was only an old Lada estate, and didn't attract any attention so everything was still there in the morning (again probably wouldn't happen these days).

    And today, we're just about to set off for a walk down to our local river to see if the salmon are still trying to get up the weir.  Then we'll continue down to the garden centre, and then back home via a coffee and hald a scone each, with jam and clotted cream,at the Donkey Sanctuary charity shop which serves absolutely delicious coffee!

  • ValDa
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    edited November 2016 #74

    Sorry, posted the 'What are you doing today in the wrong thread'.  My apologies!

    Back to the topic of MacMillan, my friend received enormous help from the MacMillan team in 2009 when she was suffering from a very nasty throat cancer.  She's pulled through, since then has had two replacement knees, and is now very positive about life
    and living.

  • DavidKlyne
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    edited November 2016 #75

    One of our neighbours used to put a Christain Aid envelop through the letter box and come back a week later. She has not done if for some years so I wondered whether that method of collecting has stopped. Perhaps it was a lot of effort for too small a return.

    My own preference for charitable donations is to do them online. Some will be our own chosen charities and some dictated by circumstances. Unfortunately we have been to two funerals recently, one a former colleague and one a neighbour. The faimily of the
    former colleage nominated Macmillan so we were happy to send a donation.I know some don't like online donations as there is some concern about fees but at least you can claim gift aid.

    David 

     

  • ValDa
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    edited November 2016 #76

    Christian Aid is still active in our area - I think it depends if you have an active churchgoer living nearby, or willing to walk a bit further to deliver and then collect the envelopes.

  • N1805
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    edited November 2016 #77

    Just home, after the overnight stay after op became a four nights nightmare. :-( 

     

    Now awaiting radiotherapy course

    Glad to hear you're home. Wards can be quite noisy sometimes especially when you feel you need a bit of a rest from the 'routine' there. Nothing like your own bed for comfort. Take care.

  • ABM
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    edited November 2016 #78

    Christian Aid is still active in our area - I think it depends if you have an active churchgoer living nearby, or willing to walk a bit further to deliver and then collect the envelopes.

    Same here  Valda,  but  we  have  the  Luxury  (  ??  )  of  a  local  Councillor  & ex - Town  mayor  living a  couple  of  hundred  yards  away  and  he  does  the  "Delivering,  Collecting  &  Dishing  out  Reminders  bit"  for  Christian  Aid  in  my  area.

    IMHO  there  is  nobody  but  nobody  better  at  collecting  door  to  door,  or  on  street  corners  than  a  chappie  who  spent  many  years  doing  that  but  for  votes  in  stead  of  money.  He  really  does  know  how  to  tug  at  your  heart  ( and  wallet ) strings   SmileCool

     

  • Wherenext
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    edited January 2017 #80

    Best of luck Mick. It probably won't actually help but you were in my thoughts just last week, hoping for the good news. 

    Hope that posting on here takes your mind off your illness. 

    ps good to see that the post Christmas diet is working.surprisedwink

  • ABM
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    edited January 2017 #81

    Glad  to  hear  you  are  eating  better  &  posting  as  well,  Redmick!

    just  don't  try  to  put  the  weight  back  on  as  a  matter  of  urgency,  tho'

    Enjoy  those  nights  away  as  well  as  all  the  planning  that  goes  with  it  !

    P.S.  Happy  New  Year   !!

  • huskydog
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    edited January 2017 #82

    Enjoy your nights away , and remember , we're here if you want a chat cool

  • robsail
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    edited January 2017 #83

    Hope you enjoy your nights away.

    Glad to hear that that you're feeling better.

  • N1805
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    edited January 2017 #84

    Good to see your post & that you are managing to eat a bit better. Hope the weather improves for your time away. Guess the nurses must have looked after you OK.

  • Pliers
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    edited January 2017 #85

    Great to hear from you, Mick, Happy New Year!

    Not really biking weather, but I know you guys get out and about regardless.

    All the best for 2017 😊😊😊😊

  • brue
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    edited January 2017 #86

    I was hoping we'd hear from you Mick. Hope you can get away soon...looks as though the weather might curtail a few trips just now so you've got the timing right with your plans! Best wishes. smile

  • cariadon
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    edited April 2017 #87

    Sadly Red Mick lost this fight this week. R.I.P

  • Bakers2
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    edited April 2017 #88

    Thanks for updating this thread cariadon. RIP Red Mick.

    I know you started another thread about this which has many messages of condolences have you been able to pass on our collective condolences from CT?

  • cariadon
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    edited April 2017 #89

    I did pass on the messages of sympathy from members here to his friend on FB to pass on to his wife and family.

  • Pliers
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    edited April 2017 #90

    Thanks for the update, Cariadon, but such awful news.

    Condolences to his family and friends, please stay strong in such a difficult time.

    😢

  • Bakers2
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    edited April 2017 #91

    Thank you so much. It won't help the situation but his family know we are thinking of them and may give some comfort. 😢