What has a couple with a young family to think.
Imagine the scenario - Young couple, continental van with awning, two young kids with bikes and a dog.
They join the CC and go on some lovely holidays enjoying the different CC campsites. The future looks great !!! 
Then during the winter they decide to take part in the CT forum.
Thats when they learn that there are members who complain bitterly about Dogs, Kids, even bikes on the site, Then "shock horror" they also learn that some members object to their caravan door, and even worse, their awning is facing somebody elses. 
Having learned all the things that they, according to some on here, are doing wrong, they think - I better join another club. ------------
Would that not that not be a great shame !!!! 
This is just a made up example to add a bit of humour to the many moans we read about. (Fortunately from only a very few members).
Would it be not much more friendly to adopt the "live and let live" scenario To care about other caravanners interests and circumstances and see other people on site as "friends you have yet to meet".
K