Who is worried about offending others?

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  • ADP1963
    ADP1963 Club Member Posts: 1,280
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    edited April 2016 #62

    Laughing

    Write your comments here...Husky, your mentor Bolero Boy is quiet lately!. Has he gone to Italy?I think he did mention he was heading off that way soon.

  • Rocky 2 buckets
    Rocky 2 buckets Forum Participant Posts: 7,101
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    edited April 2016 #63

    Artyboo 

    You are just describing self censorship. Avoid certain topics, and you know what they are and you will be alright or say what you think and wait for them to circle.

    Personally I don’t give a toss and for every bully here  I have made an equal number of friends, some  I meet and others still email friends yet.

     

    AD, it's a case of being part of the problem or part of the solution. It's incumbent on us all to be part of the solutionHappy

  • thebroons
    thebroons Forum Participant Posts: 165
    edited April 2016 #64

    Just got to remember opinions are like ar@eholes. 

    We all have one.........

  • Metheven
    Metheven Club Member Posts: 3,987
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    edited April 2016 #65

    Just got to remember opinions are like ar@eholes. 

    We all have one.........

    Yes, but some make more noise than others Happy

  • Tinwheeler
    Tinwheeler Forum Participant Trusted Posts: 23,374
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    edited April 2016 #66

    So, please tell us, Arty (Boo, not the other one), has anything you've read here removed your nervousness about posting? As you can see, the vast majority of people believe it's OK to disagree as long as it's done with respect. Most people here are decent
    and polite.

    Write your comments here...  Hi Tinny, I am not nervous per-se however, the forum DOES get a little heated now and again over what SOME might see as trivia. I am not a shrinking violet by any means and if I feel strongly enough I will comment. Often, I just
    want to write 'what a load of b.......ks, but that would not be polite or respectful: therefore I don't write anything

    Thanks, Arty. I think, as has been said, the secret is to remain respectful of the person while tearing their argument to shreds in as diplomatic way as possible. Some people obviously don't care about the feelings of others and they really don't deserve
    the level of respect most of us try to maintain. Keep on posting your views - don't let the odd few put you off.

  • TheAdmiral
    TheAdmiral Forum Participant Posts: 506
    edited April 2016 #67

    Another thread moved to the Bowelis of the forum

  • Tinwheeler
    Tinwheeler Forum Participant Trusted Posts: 23,374
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    edited April 2016 #68

    I can't see a problem, to be honest, Admiral.

  • huskydog
    huskydog Club Member Posts: 5,464
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    edited April 2016 #69

    Laughing

    Write your comments here...Husky, your mentor Bolero Boy is quiet lately!. Has he gone to Italy?I think he did mention he was heading off that way soon.

    with respect young sir , why would I know where BB has gone ?Happy

     

  • ADP1963
    ADP1963 Club Member Posts: 1,280
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    edited April 2016 #70

    Laughing

    Write your comments here...Husky, your mentor Bolero Boy is quiet lately!. Has he gone to Italy?I think he did mention he was heading off that way soon.

    with respect young sir , why would I know where BB has gone ?Happy

     

    Write your comments here...Husky , faithful hound, the clue was in the word mentor and previous threads that you both contributed to.

  • Rubytuesday
    Rubytuesday Forum Participant Posts: 952
    edited April 2016 #71

    If they choose to get nasty after basically replying to your post or you replying to theres  Give as good if not better than you get, then say "out of respect for others on the forum I will make no further reply " let them blow a gasket Wink

  • DSB
    DSB Club Member, Member Moderator Posts: 5,875
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    edited April 2016 #72

    I always ask myself, by getting into a heated argument, what do I hope to achieve.  If the answer is, very little, then it hardly seems worth the agro.  Life's too short to get all hot under the collar on a forum.  So much more to do with time..

    David 

  • artyboo
    artyboo Forum Participant Posts: 457
    edited April 2016 #73

    Another thread moved to the Bowelis of the forum

    Write your comments here...   BONIOS

  • Tinwheeler
    Tinwheeler Forum Participant Trusted Posts: 23,374
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    edited April 2016 #74

    That's the way to do it, Arty!

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