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  • Malcolm Mehta
    Malcolm Mehta Forum Participant Posts: 5,660
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    edited March 2018 #16622

    It's not just that she can't swim, it's just not my wife's style to be lying next to a pool. She likes to keep herself busy doing things. I find it hard to get her to sit down at all!

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16623

    My posts simply express what I am doing. They are certainly NOT offensive and not intended to be offensive. It may be different from what others are doing and may give my reasons for it but it is ridiculous to suggest that that is in anyway offensive!

  • trellis
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    edited March 2018 #16624

    In your case, it's getting to know the area you currently LIVE in !.

  • HelenandTrevor
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    edited March 2018 #16625

    Thought I would catch up with everyone's news, hard work this morning  frown 

    I have both our sons visiting this weekend , so I'am a Happy Bunny smile

    Hope all those on holiday are enjoying themselves, Tammygirl if I could get other half abroad I would also be enjoying some warm sunshine.laughing

  • JVB66
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    edited March 2018 #16626

    If you call sitting in the only "relaxer" while your OH waits on you hand and foot,living  in a touring caravan and then "working?" at delivering pizzas as getting a life? then i am sure as the majority would think you can keep itundecided 

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16627

    Perhaps your OH thinks like me, H&T. If so, I'm glad to see that! There's nothing wrong in a UK holiday in the caravan. It is a way of life that people here have embraced for over 100 years, if you look back into the growth of tourism and the part caravanning has played in it.

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16628

    Yes and every place that I stay in is for a maximum of 21 consecutive days when staying on club sites, so temporary stays with a choice of destinations everytime I move. That's hardly the same as what you call living in one place, is it?

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16629

    Like I said, delivering pizzas is just a few hours out, a few evenings a week, which gets me a bit of extra money on top of my pension. In the meantime, my wife can have a more homely life because of no longer having to go to work. It is what she wants and prefers and so we are happily pursuing our lives in that way. She doesn't want to go to Tenerife or Lanzarote or lie by a swimming pool, she is happy here. So what's wrong with that?

  • SteveL
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    edited March 2018 #16630

    Off for a swim shortly. Water a nice 28/29C. Fortunately under a glass roof, or it would be a bit parky. Although pleasant, it would be much nicer in the open in a sunny 25C. Personally I am rather envious.

  • JVB66
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    edited March 2018 #16631

    Nothing at all if thats what you call "a life" but why do you insist on Telling everyone else that a normal life that the majority and are also happy with is in your strange ideas wrongundecided

  • SteveL
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    edited March 2018 #16632

    Not sure I see that a seasonal which you have to vacate every 21 days, is really a different concept  from someone in a house, who uses their van for multiple weekends away, as we did before we retired. You are basically living in one place and having short trips away.

    It is rather academic in any event, as long as you enjoy what you do. Just don't try and convert everyone else. 

  • cariadon
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    edited March 2018 #16633

    So true Malcolm, caravan living has been the way of life for Romany's and Irish tinkers for centuaries, and councils have been providing sites for them to live in, they have no need to keep packing up every 21 days.

    With regards to flying, I hope your wife's visa is granted otherwise it could become a problem for you.

     

  • moulesy
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    edited March 2018 #16634

    Drying up continues apace! frown The heaters and dehumidifier are working flat out and the carpets at least seem salvageable. The main problem is still that the water has to be turned off until the guy can get here, hopefully tomorrow, to do the repairs. At least the site laundry is open so we can top up 5 litre water bottles to fill the cistern so the loo is usable.  We were talking to one of the local dog walkers who we meet every day on the Dunes who lives just up the road from the park and she has very kindly said we can go round to use her shower. smile

    One thing this has brought home to us is just how devastating the floods suffered by folk in Cumbria and Somerset in recent years must have been. At least for us this is just a holiday base - have to keep looking at the positives. smile

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16635

    That's somewhat different from people who stay on club sites, cariadon!

    My wife rang the visa solicitor a couple of days ago and was told that she may have to wait up to six months for a result. Nearly four months have passed since her application was submitted on 17th November 2017. 

    Yes I agree that if the visa is refused, it would be a very big problem for me. I don't have a valid Chinese visa and even if I applied, unfortunately, the Chinese authorities are not happy for me, as a British Citizen, to stay in China for any longer than six months.

  • Pliers
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    edited March 2018 #16636

    You're right, David.

    But, equally, many posters on this forum are happy to criticise Malcolm's chosen lifestyle, financial situation etc. Sometimes to the extent of "ganging up" on him and seemingly bullying.

    🤔

  • Milothedog
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    edited March 2018 #16637

    That's day 1 taken care of then, what about the other 20 cool

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16638

    I think it all depends what you want from this forum, David. Do you want someone to say that they are jetting off somewhere and someone else to say, how nice and nothing else. If so, the conversation would go dead because there would be nothing else left to say, would there? Unless there's a proper discussion, there's no reason for anyone to continue to post on here and many posters have left for that reason.

    If my posts have helped stimulate a discussion and encouraged others to respond in a way that is creating a lively and stimulating discussion, amongst everyone, instead of the forum going dead, with no-one posting for long periods of time, that can't be a bad thing, can it?

    In the old forum, it used to be said that I was star chasing. Now that I can no longer be accused of that because they did away with stars, you're calling it trolling or excessive posting!

     

  • Tinwheeler
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    edited March 2018 #16639

    As Metheven pointed out, Malc, your normal style of posting is inoffensive (although it may be many other things). However, this post is offensive as it suggests only you have a life worth living and others should get a life and are wrong to spend their money in the way they choose.

    You're crossing the line and would do well to heed the advice of DK re trolling.

    I've backed you many a time when others have criticised you but now you’re doing what they do!

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16640

    Tinwheeler, If people post things on here, others are going to read their posts and express a point of view that may agree or disagree with what they have expressed otherwise there would be no discussion and the forum would die out because there would be nothing to say!

    By posting on here, people are inviting others to respond to what they have said and I see nothing wrong with that. If they didn't want a response, they wouldn't post on here in the first place. 

    There's nothing unfriendly in responding to what someone else has said. Tammygirl posted about jetting off into the sun and I responded to that by suggesting a different way of holidaying! I don't think she took offence to that at all!

  • huskydog
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    edited March 2018 #16641

    over the last few days my wife and I have been looking in to the possibility of me retiring by the end of 2020, trying to work out our needs  v income laughing

     

    No, Malc ,I don't want to sell my house and live in the motorhomewink

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16642

    I think, Tinwheeler, people are going to choose what they want to do regardless of what anyone on here says. However, it helps to liven up a discussion to express alternative lifestyles on here. Who knows, someone might just like to think about it, even if they don't go ahead and make the necessary changes!

  • Tinwheeler
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    edited March 2018 #16644

    That’s good news, Husky, and I can thoroughly recommend retirement. Go for it if you can. 👍🏻

     

     

     

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16645

    What I said wasn't a personal attack against Tammygirls choice of holiday but simply a suggestion that she could have an equally if not more enjoyable holiday here on the south coast of UK!

    She likes cycling. Well there are plenty of cycle tracks here in Brighton with a more temperate climate that could be better suited to such an active sport!

  • brue
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    edited March 2018 #16646

    I think you need to read Rowena's post Malcolm.

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16648

    Yes TW but like he says, he has not decided yet. He has expressed the concern of needs versus income but wants to keep his house as well. Difficult decisions!

  • Goldie146
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    edited March 2018 #16650

    What a change in the weather this week compared to last.

    Spring work is starting to gather pace - including mole catching.

    Today we've been doing what it shows in the first photo and tonight we are going to what it shows in the second one. Though my sausage rolls (contribution to the food) don't look quite how I wanted. They taste OK, but have a "rustic" look.

     

  • Malcolm Mehta
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    edited March 2018 #16651

    Yes, I have read it, brue!